Please Do this for your future self
Creating your Postpartum Plan 101:
Prenatal appointments focus on development of the fetus and health of the mother. Regular check-ups and monitoring of the baby's growth are vital to detect any potential complications early on, allowing for timely intervention and management. And rightly so. It is a vulnerable time and prenatal care creates better outcomes for mother and baby.
Also, so much emphasis is given in creating a birth plan. What kind of birth do you want? Do you want pain relief in the form of medication? Who do you want in the room? Do you want to be induced? The questions go on.
But what about after baby arrives? One thing you can do for your future self is to think about how you’d like your Fourth Trimester to go. How do you want it to look? Even if this is your first birth, you can plan for some things to bring you comfort. Think about how you want to be supported.
I’ve created a comprehensive guide to help you navigate the postpartum period:
Before Birth:
Create a Support Network: Reach out to family, friends, or a postpartum doula who can offer emotional support, help with household chores, and provide guidance during this time.
How will you communicate with your partner when things get hard? Talk with your partner soon to plan for how you’d like to tackle difficult conversations after baby.
Prepare Meals: Cook and freeze nutritious meals in advance, or consider meal delivery services. Nutrient-rich foods will aid in your recovery and energy levels.
Arrange Help: Plan for someone to assist you with household tasks, childcare, and errands for the first few weeks.
Stock Up on Essentials: Ensure you have diapers, wipes, baby clothes, feeding supplies, and any other baby essentials ready before the baby arrives.
Create a Comfortable Space: Set up a cozy and organized space where you can rest, nurse, and bond with your baby.
Learn About Breastfeeding: Attend breastfeeding classes, if possible, and gather resources for breastfeeding support.
Just in case, research some Postpartum Therapists to have at the ready in case you have symptoms that go beyond “baby blues.”
During the Postpartum Period:
Self-Care: Prioritize your own well-being. Rest when you can, stay hydrated, and eat nourishing foods.
Accept Help: Don't hesitate to accept assistance from friends and family. Let them know how they can best support you.
Sleep: Sleep deprivation is common with a newborn. Try to nap when your baby sleeps, and consider sharing nighttime duties with a partner if possible.
Feeding: Whether breastfeeding or formula-feeding, follow your baby's cues. Reach out to a lactation consultant or pediatrician for any feeding concerns.
Routine Medical Visits: Schedule postpartum check-ups for both you and your baby. Monitor your physical and emotional well-being closely.
Emotional Health: Keep an eye out for signs of postpartum depression or anxiety. Don't hesitate to seek professional help if you're struggling emotionally.
Bonding: Spend quality time bonding with your baby through skin-to-skin contact, talking, and gentle touch.
Limit Visitors: While visitors mean well, limit their number during the early weeks to avoid overwhelming yourself.
Maintain Communication: Keep open lines of communication with your partner. Discuss responsibilities, emotions, and adjustments regularly.
Beyond the First Few Weeks:
Gradual Resumption of Activities: As you feel comfortable, gradually resume light exercises and social activities.
Parenting Classes: Consider taking parenting classes to gain knowledge and confidence in your new role.
Personal Time: Make time for yourself, even if it's just a short walk or a relaxing bath. Self-care remains important.
Connect with Other Parents: Join local parenting groups or online communities to connect with other parents who can relate to your experiences.
Continued Support: Maintain your support network and don't be afraid to seek assistance as needed.
Remember that every postpartum experience is unique. Be patient with yourself, and don't hesitate to adjust your plans as you go along. Flexibility is key during this transformative time.
Outside support is available too. Please reach out for extra support during this time including from a counselor, doula, therapist, or medical professional. You are not alone.
