Penelope Oberhardt, LCSW, PMH-C, Perinatal Mental Health Therapist

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How To Choose a Therapist

How To Choose A Therapist

time to take inventory of your preferences

Welcome to your journey to find support. Glad you can make it. It is not easy to even make the first steps. You know, vulnerability. It’s hard.

Choosing a psychotherapist is an important decision that can have a significant impact on your mental and emotional well-being. Here are some steps to help you find the right psychotherapist for your needs:

  • Identify your specific needs: Determine what issues or challenges you want to address in therapy. Different psychotherapists have expertise in various areas, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, etc. Understanding your needs will help you find a therapist with the appropriate specialization.

  • Research different types of therapy: There are various approaches to psychotherapy, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, humanistic therapy, and more. Research these different types to see which one aligns best with your preferences and goals.

  • Seek recommendations: Reach out to friends, family, or colleagues who have experience with psychotherapy and ask for recommendations. Personal referrals can be valuable as they come from people you trust.

  • Check credentials and licenses: Ensure the therapist is licensed and accredited by a reputable professional organization. Check their qualifications, education, and certifications to ensure they have the appropriate training to provide psychotherapy.

  • Read reviews and testimonials: Look for reviews or testimonials from previous clients to get a sense of the therapist's effectiveness and approach.

  • Consider logistics: Think about practical considerations such as the therapist's location, office hours, fees, and payment options. Make sure the logistics are manageable and convenient for you.

  • Interview potential therapists: Many therapists offer a free initial consultation or a brief phone call. Take advantage of this to get to know the therapist and ask questions about their approach, experience, and how they handle specific issues. This interaction will give you a sense of their personality and whether you feel comfortable talking to them.

  • Trust your gut: Pay attention to how you feel during the interview or initial consultation. Trust your instincts; if you feel comfortable and understood, that's a positive sign.

  • Consider cultural fit: If cultural background or beliefs are essential to you, look for a therapist who understands and respects your cultural values and perspectives.

  • Check for ethical standards: Make sure the therapist adheres to ethical standards and guidelines set by professional organizations.

  • Evaluate the therapeutic relationship: Remember that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is crucial to successful therapy. The therapist should be empathetic, non-judgmental, and genuinely interested in your well-being.

  • Be open to change: If you find that you're not making progress or don't connect well with a therapist after a few sessions, it's okay to switch therapists. Sometimes, finding the right fit may take some trial and error.

Overall, choosing a psychotherapist is a personal process. Take your time to do your research, ask questions, and find someone who can support you on your journey to better mental health. You deserve it.